Have you ever been touched by cancer? Do you think that you or anyone you love could be at risk of developing cancer? In the spring of 2006, the high school where I teach hosted the Relay for Life, a twenty-four hour fundraiser for cancer. I was given a videotape to show to my classes which was meant to inform the students about the importance of the Relay for Life, as well as to give them some basic understanding of the risks of cancer. I introduced the video, and then watched it with my students. As I watched it, I was saddened to think about the many lives that are lost each year to cancer. I had lost a neighbor to cancer many years ago, but that had been my only experience with this horrible disease. I had always felt sorry for people who had family members who were suffering with cancer, and I worried about my best friend because her mother had breast cancer. I knew that this meant that my friend was at risk of developing breast cancer. I thought I was safe, though, because I had no family history of any type of cancer. So, as I watched that video with my students, I was shocked to learn that cancer can strike anyone, and that many people who learn that they have cancer have no family history of the disease. I realized that I had been misinformed about the various risks of developing cancer. I realized that I was at risk, as were all of my students, family members and friends. Cancer could strike anyone at any time, and I had never even given it a second thought. I realized that people need to be informed that everyone is potentially at risk for cancer.
After watching the video, my students and I walked in the Relay for Life. We also contributed money to the fundraiser, and participated in some fun activities. I was proud of my students for being so supportive of this important cause, and when the Relay for Life events were over, I went on with my life, never thinking that quite soon I would learn more about cancer than any video could ever have taught me. The school year ended, and I was excited to have a fun summer with my three year old son.
However, due to my increased awareness of the risks of cancer, I decided that I would use some of my free time that summer to get some medical tests done. I went to my doctor and scheduled a mammogram, which is an x-ray that all women age 40 and above are supposed to get every year. I had just turned 41, and since I had previously thought I had no risk factors for cancer, I had never had the test done. I had actually had an appointment to have it done, and I'd canceled the appointment, thinking it would be a waste of time--I will always wonder if it would have made a difference if I had been tested a year earlier. Now, though, I had an increased sense of urgency, so I followed through with the appointment. A week after the appointment, I received a call from a radiologist who had evaluated my x-rays, and who claimed that he suspected that I had cancer. He insisted that I come to his office for additional testing. I wasn't home to answer his call, though, because it was summer and I was off enjoying the warm weather. He was very persistent, though, and actually called me several times, leaving messages on my answering machine . I finally returned his calls the next day, and he seemed to be very sincere, so I set an appointment to get an MRI the following Monday, and went on with my day. That weekend, I got a phone call from the place where the MRI was scheduled to be done. The woman who called told me that my insurance company was refusing to pay for the MRI, and she said she needed me to confirm that I would pay for it if they could not get reimbursed from the insurance company. I told her I couldn't pay for it and to just cancel the appointment. Early that Monday morning, my family doctor called me. She insisted that I go through with the MRI, and she promised that if my insurance company refused to pay, she would make sure it was covered, or it would be free. She assured me that I would not have to pay for it. Trusting that she would take care of this issue, I went ahead and had the MRI, and within another week, I got another early morning phone call from my doctor, this time confirming that I had cancer, and more ominously, telling me that I had multiple areas of cancer and I would need surgery right away.
Wow! I hung up the phone and I was shaking. I had been getting ready to take my son to daycare, so he was standing in my kitchen with me, and I knew I had to avoid scaring him, so I just calmly told my husband what the doctor had said, and then I went off into another room, far from the innocent eyes of my little boy, to have a nervous breakdown. The next several weeks were a whirlwind of testing, and biopsies, and lots of hours spent in waiting rooms. By fall, I was back to school, but I still faced surgery and chemotherapy. I had surgery in September, and I started chemotherapy in November, but I managed to continue to work, even as I became weaker and weaker, and all of my hair fell out. Somehow, though, I got through the grueling treatment, and my doctors all told me that I did well, and that there was no longer any sign of cancer. None of them would tell me I was cured, but it has now been six years, and so far, there is still not any sign of cancer.
My experience with cancer is not unique. I was just lucky to have caught it in time to survive. The type of cancer I had was very aggressive. It was what is considered a Grade III cancer, which is the most aggressive type. It was also an invasive cancer, which meant it was growing and spreading, and if the doctors had not found it when they did, it could have killed me. What is especially haunting to me, though, is the fact that I was walking around with that cancer in me, and I had no idea it was there. I had no symptoms, no pain, and I had not felt ill or weak. I wonder how many people are walking around right now, just as clueless as I was, with the time bomb of cancer ticking away in their bodies.
Now, I am a cancer survivor and I think it is important that I help educate others about cancer. It has become an epidemic in our society, due to many factors that people may not realize put them at risk. I think the media needs to do a better job of printing articles about cancer, and I think there should be more public service announcements on television to help increase awareness of cancer deaths. I was misinformed and if I hadn't seen that Relay-for-Life video, I would probably not be here today. I thought I was too young to worry about breast cancer. I thought it was a disease that only older women had to face. I thought cancer was only a disease that was hereditary, and since no one in my family had ever had cancer, I thought I was safe. All of my misconceptions come back to haunt me. If only I had known more about cancer, would my life have been different?
Some people may think that this is an issue that does not effect them. Perhaps they are misinformed, and think that cancer is a disease that only effects people who have certain risk factors. Regardless of what people have been told in the past, times have changed. The chemicals we are exposed to, the pollution in our air, the additives in our foods, and the toxins in our water....it is impossible to say exactly what makes one person develop cancer while others who lived in the same area and ate the same foods do not develop cancer. No one seems to be able to explain what caused my cancer. I have done a lot of reading, though, and I know that I need to avoid alcohol and sugar. I also know I should eat lots of vegetables, stay out of the sun, and get daily exercise. Due to what I have learned, I think I will live a healthier life, and hopefully avoid facing cancer ever again. I hope that by helping to inform others, I can prevent them from losing their lives to cancer by getting an early diagnosis at the first sign of anything different about their bodies or about how they feel. Many people wait to get something odd checked out, often because they are afraid to face the possibility of cancer. But, it is so much better to go get checked out right away, even if it is scary, because it gives a person a better chance to fight this horrible disease. Those who are diagnosed at an early stage, a stage where it has not yet spread, may be lucky enough to not even have to do chemo or radiation.
So, as you can see, the issue of cancer awareness is important to me, and I hope that after hearing my story, it will be important to you, too. It is vital that you pass this message along to those that you love. Tell any woman you care about who is age 40 or older that she needs to get a mammogram. Tell your family members, friends, and anyone else you care about that cancer can strike anyone at any time. Take part in fundraisers at school and in the community to help raise money for cancer research. Lives are lost to cancer every hour of every day, and until a cure is found, we need to do everything we can to fight this disease, both with information and with science. We need to increase cancer awareness so that more people will be screened for cancer, and more lives will be saved.
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